Forgiveness means letting go of pain, disappointment and anger while learning from the choices we have made. So that we make better decisions the next time around. Forgetting what could of been destroyed in the past and looking forward to what we can build in the future. As it can be a hard thing to forgive others when they have done us wrong or have caused us heartache. So to deliver forgiveness can be tricky, depending on the situation and/or the parties involved. But it’s necessary for us to grow as human beings; individually and as a whole.
For life is too short to live it unhappy holding grudges over past issues or things we have no control over. As we are all human beings, so we will make a lot of mistakes. Time and time again. Mistakes we wish we never made and some we can never reverse. So why hold on to something that doesn’t benefit us? Or fear forgiveness because we “feel” the other person or parties have “won”; when in reality we are only fooling ourselves into thinking that our forgiveness lies in the hands of others. When in fact, forgiveness is a “me thing”. Its not about them, its about you. So we must understand forgiveness comes from our minds, bodies and souls because it’s what our hearts tell us to do. Only we can control how and who we choose to forgive.